Most of the time, when we talk about another person, it has never been positive. Over and over again, it has been negative. Smearing, smudging, slandering and whatnots.
This morning while I’m having coffee, there it goes again. Government servants, nicely dressed over breakfast, in formal attire, bad mouthing their superiors in public. I can`t help but to notice that these are senior people. negative people working their day into damaging another’s Integrity from behind.
What an attitude and mentality ! It is really damaging. In fact, to their own self. It only shows of their attitude and the mindset. Disgusting indeed.
1. Excuse yourself when friends start to talk bad about others. You are bound to be an accomplice to the sins committed there.
2. Learn to lead a positive life. Choose to be a good finder. Good finders have the opportunities and rooms to praise others.
3. Stay away from Gossiping. there is no such things a positive gossiping.
4. Positive people do not engage in a negative habits.
5. It is always better to spend time looking for rooms to improve oneself rather than engaging in rumors and gossiping about others. It damage your soul and your mind.
What you do in life is your choice. What you choose in life determines where you are. It too determines the circle of people that you are with. And it determines where you would be in the future of your life.
To be criticised by others and come back again with a stronger impact with a WOW substance, that is Personal Power ! The ability to deliver greater results by taking the required action from the positive side of your abilities.
It is very true that the art of leadership begins with oneself. it has to begin with you own self first. Why, simply because leadership is all about character and if you do not develop that, no one will ever listen or look up to you.
Thought for The Day – Small Matters Creates A Big Impact.
Life passes us by like traffics on the highway. The moments that goes by, never to return.
Make sure in everyday of our life, there is something that we learn of. Something new a day, and that would make you to be the wisest among them all. Sad, for those who simply let life and time passes them by without a single learning.
There’s a saying that goes,’People do not leave the Company, People leave their Managers.’ Make sure your Managers are doing what is best for your company or you are going to lose your company in the long run !
TOUCH THE LIFE OF OTHERS TODAY AND MAKE THEM FEEL GOOD. PUT A SMILE ON THE FACE OF OTHERS AND YOU HAVE DONE GOOD TODAY!
- zmza 20140823
That’s how we live our lives, don’t we. And we expect people to understand us fully. How? Simply by giving excuses.
This is how we have been doing thing! Oh you have to understand, this is how we in the government operates. Oh..you have to understand us if you want to do business with us.
These are all the examples of excuses that we have been living throughout the centuries. We simply can’t change. DO not want to change or do not want to embrace change.
And the weirdest part of it is that we call in the consultant and the trainers expecting these people to do magic to change the people after some 10 years of demotivated, demoralised attitude, when we ourselves too need to be changed.
Sometimes we need to THINK about it !